How to find the best tutor
Choosing
a tutor for your child is something that should
take time and careful consideration. A good
match between the tutor and the student will
hasten the results. Choosing the best tutor
takes good questioning.
If your child's teacher suggested obtaining
a tutor, make sure you first have a conference
with her to find out the basis of her suggestion
and keep good notes. If a battery of tests are
given make sure you keep the results handy.
First,
you may ask the teacher or the tester for a
tutor referral. Other sources of referrals would
be friends who have children with similar needs,
your physician or the school counselor. I would
not suggest using any tutor unless you have
a referral from someone who you respect or someone
who has actually used her services.
During
your initial conversation you should ask several
very important questions:
What
are your qualifications to be a tutor?
What kind of tutoring experience do you have?
What kind of other teaching experience do you
have?
What is your educational background? (general)
Then
ask specifically about your particular need.
For
example: Do you have training and/or experience
working with dyslexic students, or students
with language delay, or disabilities in reading
or math. Don't forget to ask questions about
the particular age level. Some tutors may be
excellent for students of primary age but not
for older students and vice versa.
What
methods do you use?
How long are your sessions and how often?
How much progress can you expect and how long?
How will you communicate progress with me?
Where do you tutor?
Do you mind giving me a referral to speak to?
And of course, What is your fee?
How do you wish to be paid, cash, check, weekly,
monthly, etc.
Who pays for the materials needed by my child?
What kind of commitment to you expect initially?
At
this point, if you are feeling positive, you
may wish to ask about her schedule availability.
If it works well with yours, you can ask to
hold a particular time until you had a chance
to think it over and possibly call a referral.
If you are very confident you may wish to confirm
the time immediately. I suggest you request
that the first session be an evaluation session.
The tutor needs to do her own assessment of
your child's needs and design a plan. If the
tutor does not suggest this, I would offer the
suggestion. For example: Could you please see
my son for one assessment session and let me
know what you think his needs are and whether
you feel you can help him? By doing this, neither
of you have made a long-term commitment and
at the end of the first session, you can better
decide.
A few things to watch out for:
Claims
of cure or success after so many weeks. Group
sessions - they are not as effective as individual
sessions and the cost is not that much less.
Preprogrammed systems advertised commercially
usually do not fit the individual needs of students.
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