The celebration of Valentine’s Day cannot
leave you untouched; such is the enthusiasm
that it is celebrated with. The most common
symbols that one associates with Valentine’s
Day are roses, hearts and cupid. St. Valentine’s
Day is a celebration of love and there are many
legends attributed to its origin.
Claudius
the cruel
One
legend is set in the ancient Roman Empire. February
14 was celebrated as the day of Juno, who was
considered to be the Goddess of women and marriage.
The celebrations involved the pairing of eligible
young men and women for the festivities and
this pairing would often result in marriage.
Emperor Claudius II banned these rituals as
he faced a shortage of young men willing to
go to war. No wonder he earned the epithet “cruel”.
Claudius the cruel, who banned love. His justification
was that once they got married or fell in love,
young men were reluctant to join the army. So
the Emperor declared engagements and marriages
to be illegal.
St.
Valentine to the rescue
A
Roman priest called St. Valentine felt the Emperor’s
dictates to be very unjust and started getting
people married in secret. Once his activities
became known he was jailed and later executed.
So St. Valentine is considered to be the patron
saint of people in love.
The
first Valentine
Another
incident related in this context is that while
in prison St. Valentine fell in love with his
jailer’s daughter who was blind. Before
being taken away for execution he penned a small
note for her signing it with the words “from
your valentine”. Famous words used by
one and all now. Legend has it that the blind
girl regained her eyes as soon as she touched
the note written with true love.
St.
Valentine died on February 14 in 270 AD and
so the day is celebrated to uphold the love
that he so cherished. However many traditional
customs were misused and so have been discontinued.
Some
other explanations
The
Catholic Church recognizes three St. Valentines.
And all three were martyred. Some stories put
forth the view that St. Valentine was executed,
as he was found guilty of helping Christian
prisoners escape from Roman prisons. In the
Middle Ages, St. Valentine was a very popular
saint in Europe.
Ancient
Rome had a festival known as the Lupercalia
festival celebrated in the month of February.
There were many traditional festivities associated
with this festival. As per one school of thought,
the Christian Church itself introduced St. Valentine’s
Day celebrations at the same time in order to
weed out the earlier festivities which they
considered heathen.
Another
school of thought says that as in Britain and
France, February 14 signified the start of the
breeding season for birds it was sufficient
cause to celebrate the day as one symbolic of
love.
The
celebrations now
Poems
are exchanged among youngsters, symbolic of
the last poem that Valentine sent to his beloved.
And these poems have come to be known as valentines.
In some places cards with poems written in them
are exchanged between youngsters who want to
befriend each other. These cards bear a message
– “Will you be my valentine?”
Acceptance heralds the beginning of a new friendship.
Token gifts like flowers, candy, etc., are also
exchanged. Celebrations are no fun on your own;
so many social gatherings mark the occasion.
These customs have spread to all parts of the
world and have taken on the local flavor too.
The
significance of flowers
Flowers
are used extensively on Valentine’s Day
to convey love and friendship. Roses are the
preferred blooms. Did you know that the color
of the rose conveys a meaning in itself? White
roses denote true love; red roses denote passion
and yellow roses signify friendship and black
roses tell the sad tale of farewell.
The
oldest known Valentine
A
prisoner in the Tower of London wrote the oldest
Valentine known today. The prisoner was the
Duke of Orleans whose outpourings of emotion
in the form of a poem addressed to his wife
was written in 1415. It has been put up for
public viewing at the British museum. Another
famous Valentine was written to Catherine of
Valois. The Valentine was from King Henry V,
but lacking literary talents, he hired a writer
to put his feelings into words!
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