Some of the most significant
messages people deliver to one another often come in just
three words. When spoken or conveyed, those statements have
the power to forge new friendships, deepen old ones and restore
relationships that have cooled. The following three-word phrases
can enrich every relationship.
I'LL BE THERE - Being there for another person is the
greatest gift we can give. When we are truly present for other
people, important things happen to them and to us. We are
renewed in love and friendship. We are restored emotionally
and spiritually. 'Being there' is at the very very core of
civility.
I MISS YOU - Perhaps more marriages could be salvaged
and strengthened if couples simply and sincerely said to each
other, "I miss you." This powerful affirmation tells
partners they are wanted, needed, desired and loved.
I RESPECT YOU - Respect is another way of showing love.
Respect conveys the feeling that another person is a true
equal. It is a powerful way to affirm the importance of a
relationship.
MAYBE YOU'RE RIGHT - This phrase is highly effective
in diffusing an argument and restoring frayed emotions. The
flip side of "maybe you're right" is the humility
of admitting "maybe I'm wrong."
PLEASE FORGIVE ME - Many broken relationships could
be restored and healed if people would admit their mistakes
and ask for forgiveness. All of us are vulnerable to faults,
foibles and failures. A man should never be ashamed to own
he has been in the wrong, which is but saying, in other words,
that he is wiser today than he was yesterday.
I THANK YOU - Gratitude is an exquisite form of courtesy.
People who enjoy the companionship of good, close friends
are those who don't take daily courtesies for granted. They
are quick to thank their friends for their many expressions
of kindness. On the other hand, people whose circle of friends
is severely constricted often do not have the attitude of
gratitude.
COUNT ON ME - "A friend is one who walks in when
others walk out," Loyalty is an essential ingredient
for true friendship; it is the emotional glue that bonds people.
Those who are rich in their relationships tend to be steady
and true friends. When troubles come, a good friend is there,
indicating "you can count on me."
LET ME HELP - The best of friends see a need and try
to fill it. When they spot a hurt they do what they can to
heal it. Without being asked, they pitch in and help.
I UNDERSTAND YOU - People become closer and enjoy each
other more if they feel the other person accepts and understands
them. Letting others know in so many little ways that you
understand him or her is one of the most powerful tools for
healing your relationship.
GO FOR IT - Some of your friends may be non conformists,
have unique projects and unusual hobbies. Support them in
pursuing their interests. Rather than urging your loved ones
to conform, encourage their uniqueness-everyone has dreams
that no one else has.
I suppose the 3 little words that you were expecting to see
have to be reserved for those who are special; that is I
LOVE YOU. |
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